My son just turned 3, and we celebrated with two of the things he loves most: Music and monster trucks!
Although we did have a wonderful time at both events, I realized I wasn’t as prepared as I could have been. So, I made a list of things I’ll do differently next time.
If you’re taking your child to a big event, try out these tips and tricks for what to take and how to stay safe.
First things first, check the event’s website. Some banned items actually might be allowed for parents.
For example, lots of venues require clear bags or no bags at all. This did not apply to our diaper bag. Reusable water bottles are great, but they do need to be emptied before going through security.
I made a mistake assuming that couldn’t bring in food or drinks. However, we actually could have. That would have saved us a lot of time and money spent standing in line for expensive festival food truck cuisine.
A lot of festivals also have events, activities, and areas specifically for children. Check out the activities on the event’s website.
Layers and Ear Protection
What about extra clothing? With a little one, we get the perk of being able to bring a stroller/ wagon to haul everything. Where I live, it gets so warm during the day, but, as soon as the sun goes down, the temperature drops quickly. It’s important to have some layers for when it gets colder, comfortable shoes for walking, and even a rain jacket just in case.
We always bring some ear protection for our little one as well. It can get loud and we want to protect our baby’s ears. Headphones also can help when little ones just need a break from the noise.
Changing Spaces
Don’t forget the diapers and wipes if your kiddo needs them and a mat to lay down for changing them.
Another obstacle I ran into was the porta-potty situation. How does one change a diaper/pull up in a porta-potty that many concert goers before us ‘missed’ in? I opted to find the first aid tent. The EMT’s allowed us to change our son in their tent on a gurney.
Event volunteers also might be able to direct you to the closest changing area.
Stay Safe
It’s exciting to take your kiddo to their first big event, but you might feel nervous about keeping your child safe. As parents, we tend to worry (in my case, probably a bit too much). Here are some safety suggestions that may help calm your nerves.
The idea of being separated from your kiddo at a big event like a festival or a concert, is nerve racking. You can put a wrist band or sticker on your kiddo that has your phone number listed, in case you are separated. Do not put your child’s name on the wristband or sticker. Just list a parent or caretaker’s phone number.
I’m sure you were already planning to take pictures. Make sure to take a photo of your little one before leaving. That way you know exactly what colors and clothing they were wearing to describe them to security, if needed.
I opted to bring a stroller to our outdoor music festival. We used the stroller when my son was tired of walking or if he was trying to stray too far away. The stroller also was great for holding all the stuff so we didn’t have to carry it.
Worth It!
Events like these can be a huge undertaking when attending with small children. But I promise, it is totally worth it to see them with those huge headphones on dancing and jumping around having the time of their life.
Plus, they will be so tired by the time you get back home, they’ll definitely be sleeping through the night!
Sophie Hamel is a freelance writer and works as a crisis responder. Her son is three years old.
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